Frustration

So I have been trying to decide how I can rest in some things that have been going on around me.I know that I have not taken the time to get on here as much and I just need to. I think that it would be a really good thing to come on here and do this, I know too that I have said this before. But we will see what happens! ; ) Anywhoo. This is where I am at. I watching people all around me who say that they have the same beliefs as I do and yet they are making choices that are going against what I/"we" believe. I just do not get it. Well, I know that this is not really long, but that is all I know to say without writing a novel or something. I guess I just want to send this out to the world wide web and that is all. Why do people hate the idea of having a black and white set of rules, what is this need we have for gray areas. Yes I know that they exist, but when it comes to boundries why do we have the need to buck them and to test them and to live in the moment and not to care about what our decision today might do to our tomorrow! I don't know I am just in a quandry and trying not to live by judging others because that will lead to my own judgement and I KNOW that I am not perfect. But all things should work themselves out. I will give my burdens to the One who cares the most!